I’ve been in sales my entire life. I’ve sat face to face with thousands of people on a daily basis, and I’ve experienced the ugliest of personalities, the horror of the ugly ‘soul’…..something you cannot help by the way….don’t even try. It’s not your job to help the people who hate everything and everybody. They have a mental illness that they’ve simmered in all their lives, and you cannot help them. They are damaged in some way from something from their childhood maybe, or some bad experience they’ve lived—-unless you’re a certified, educated counselor, you won’t be able to help them. And even then I tell you to be prepared for the realization that even though you’ve educated yourself in the field of psychological counseling, you may not be able to help the people who HATE.
I’ve learned this many times over in my life. I’ve thrown myself mercilessly into people’s horrible problems, trying to help. I’ve come to the conclusion that if people don’t want to HELP THEMSELVES it’s just none of your business anymore. Goodbye. Seeya. Get lost. And I say this even to professional counselors, many of whom I’ve known have been abused by hateful people, regardless of them trying their best to HELP. Unless you really want to be a MARTYR or a SAINT, walk away and STAY AWAY.
Your life will be much happier, your family and friends will thank you, and the people you were trying to help won’t give two shits whether you tried or not. There are just some people in this world who are UNGRATEFUL, ungratified, and unsavory, and guess what—-they don’t want YOUR help.
People who hate you probably hate themselves too. Or as the saying goes, WANT TO BE YOU. These sayings are so true it’s crazy. If you offer kindness and someone spits in your face, RUN. Never look back, and never return once they’ve shown you who they are. If you return to the scene of the HATE you’ll regret it for the rest of your life because then, more than likely, they’ll either physically assault you or torture you verbally. Just walk away forever.
Hate is nothing more than a manifestation of someone’s SELF, I’m convinced of that.
THE UGLY SOUL is not your problem. It’s their problem. Worry about your own soul, and your own life.
And by the way, HATE does not have a ‘color’, it’s everywhere. Color is meaningless when it comes to HATE. And yes, I firmly believe these rotten souls are empty vessels. My Twitter friend Mr. Veritas the Marine has summed this up in a great tweet that I couldn’t resists screenshotting;-)
THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU TRY KINDNESS ON SOMEONE WHO HATES AND HAS NO CONSCIENCE
SISTERS MURDERED BY NEXT DOOR NEIGHBOR